Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Our life and the people we love in Mexico


I thought I would spend a few moments and give you a more descriptive update of what we are doing here in Zacatecas.  We appreciate all the prayer and support and want you to know our God is faithful and has provided for all our needs!  We seek to be patient in ministry and life.  Knowing that in the Lord’s timing he works and moves in ways we never thought.  So pray for our faithfulness and patience as we continue to serve the Lord here in Zacatecas Mexico.   

Mary, a believer in our group, recently became very bold with her desire to share the gospel.  Mary and Cesar have 2 little boys and lost another son 2 years ago to Leukemia.  Mary is a believer but her husband is not.  Mary has been sharing and serving with some of her friends in the children’s cancer area at the hospital in Zacatecas.  Because of Mary’s eagerness we began studying the Bible with Dario and Patricia who made decisions for Christ last month.  This family seems eager to learn and study but it is very difficult for them as their 8 year old son has cancer (leukemia) and is going through Chemotherapy right now.   They originally sold all they owned to pay for his treatment.  Now they are waiting and praying his blood count is good enough to go to Delaware for a bone marrow transplant.  The government hospitals here are not very nice and their services are not good.  For example for Little Dario’s treatments, the Dad (Dario) has to go at 5:00 A.M. and stand in a line during the weeks of Chemo to hopefully get a ticket to come back in the afternoon and see the doctor.  Of course when they return later that day to stand in line again and wait for the appt, the doctor may not show up or have time to see them that day.  So the next day it all starts over again.  It is hard to hear about some of the people here that cannot give their kids what we as Americans are so accustomed to giving whenever it is needed, especially when it involves their health.  We really need to pray for this couple Dario and Patricia.  They believe whole heartedly that God will heal their son, which is good, yet God may have other plans.  We pray their faith does not waver regardless of the outcome!  They are waiting this week to see of their sons (little Dario) blood levels are good enough so they can go to Delaware for the Bone Marrow Transplant.  The little sister is a match for the bone marrow and would be giving the transplant.  This is just one of the trials we meet up with as we seek to share the gospel and understand the culture and needs here.

 I thought I would also give you a glimpse of our normal week and that way you can share as you see fit.  Sundays we have a bible study at Mary’s House.  In the last year we have had as few as 2 and as many as 25 any given Sunday.  We sing some, share some and study the word.  Grace recently started to prepare a children’s class for after the singing for her Hattie, Mary’s 2 boys and any other kids that show up.  She has done this a few times and really enjoys it.  Of course we are excited to see both girls doing this as it is all in Spanish which is not an easy task. Every six weeks we meet at a park and present a more evangelistic message with food, games and spend time together getting to know one another. We also have multiple evangelistic bible studies throughout the week with individuals and/or families in our home, their home, coffee shop or place of work. These are very informal but have been some of the best times of sharing the gospel clearly with individuals. Josh put together four evangelistic studies from John and four from Romans to use in this setting. Spurgeon said something like “If God would just put a mark on the back of all the elect; I would go down the street checking for marks and share the gospel with those people.” If only it was that easy. So he shares with anyone that will listen.

Monday is our official day off.  We go to the market, Wal-Mart and Sams.  We love to go to the Market for all our Fruits and Vegetables and always come home with plenty for a great price!  Of course this means when we get home there is a 2 hour work period of washing and sanitizing all the food so we don’t get sickJ  this means soaking and cleansing everything so it is ready to eat for the week.  After that it is play time.  We might go to the park, or any activity that is going on around town to understand the culture better.  If it rains, which doesn’t happen often, we play games, read or watch something. The girls like the Cosby show and Josh and I are into Matlock. Hey we couldn’t find Colombo episodes on YouTube! We usually look for a recipe on Pinterest and make a meal together that we miss from home. Last week we made Chick-Fil-A spicy chicken sandwiches. Others have included PF Chang’s Mongolian Beef and Broccoli, Olive Garden’s Chicken Gnocchi Soup with Salad and Bread sticks, Papa John’s BBQ Chicken Hawaiian Pizza or anything Josh sees on Man vs. Food or Eat Street.

Tuesdays through Friday are school days.  The girls and I have school from 9-3 and Josh works.  We love home school.  We are doing a curriculum called My Fathers World.  This year we are studying Rome to the Reformation.  It is a fun and interesting subject as we get to see how the history of the world and the Bible go hand in hand.   Right now as a family we are reading a great book in the evenings that is part of the curriculum called, The Bronze Bow.  I would recommend it as a great family read for elementary aged to high school aged kids.

Tuesday and Thursday evenings from 5-7 the girls have volleyball practice.  This, like everything else in Mexico is hit or miss.  Someday we show up and there is no practice and no one tells us.  Other days there might be 35 girls there.  We have had to learn to go with the flow.  Nothing is set in stone here.  If it rains we are pretty much assured that practice is cancelled.  What would we do in Salem if that happened?  We would never do anything.  The same goes for Bible studies throughout the week.  Nothing is a sure thing so we might have plans one week for 4-5 different studies and activities and they all get cancelled.  Of course we won’t know this till we arrive prepared or about 10 minutes before the planned study.

 Josh spends his time studying, meeting people, and sharing the gospel.  A normal Bible study in English that takes Josh 2-4 hours to prepare will take about 8-10 hours in Spanish. That’s down from 14-15 when we first got here.  Josh has also become very bold with sharing the gospel.  He has been studying some of the Way of the Master Materials with Kirk Cameron and Ray Comfort.  He had an opportunity to attend their basic training conference here in Mexico which was really helpful. Josh is now quick to start gospel centered conversations and ask the million dollar question.  If you are not familiar with this idea of sharing the gospel check it out at www.wayofthemaster.com.   They have great resources and tracts as well as courses in English and Spanish that are useful whether you are a missionary, in the workplace, or a mom at home.   

Throughout the week Josh and I are both involved playing on a mixed volleyball team and Josh on a men’s basketball team.  This has provided opportunities to meet new people as well us to understand the culture and get more language practice.  As far as continued language learning Josh is in the lead with his ability to communicate and he does very well, Grace and Hattie are quickly reaching my abilities and at times I just try to hang on.J   Learning a new language is a chore but God uses our weaknesses and for that I am thankful.

Our weekends are spent doing normal family stuff with ministry mixed in where we can get it.  We often try to have someone over for a meal, go out with a family, check out new places, etc… The girls like to try to have a friend over some weekends and this really helps them with their Spanish and mine too!  We try to reach out and build relationships with our neighbors and the people are very hospitable.  Here you always stop by unannounced.  The people are always quick to stop what they are doing and invite you in insisting that you sit down and always offer you something to drink.  They will then sit and visit with you until you decide to get up and go.  Of course it is not really polite to leave before you have been there for at least 1 hr.  I love this part of the culture and wish we could adapt to this more in the states, J   Time to just be, build relationships, not in a hurry.

We love living here and are looking forward to what God has in our future, especially with adoption on the horizon.  The trials at times come with lack of true Christian fellowship. We listen to multiple messages each week that keep us spiritually refreshed.  Sometimes you get tired of only talking with your spouse or your kids or in Spanish.  There are not many believers and simple truths of the Word of God are not common knowledge like they are in a church environment.  There are also trials when you are your own boss.  If there are days you don’t want to work you wouldn’t have to.  We have found that to prevent laziness and lack of motivation we live on a fairly strict schedule throughout the week.  This acts as our boss and keeps us focused on our goals and purpose here on a day to day basis.  We want to take advantage of the time we have.  I recently heard the statement that anything that causes us to need God is a blessing.  It is true as we need Him daily to keep our eyes and hearts fixed on bringing him glory.  In many ways we live a normal life here, just in another country and bit slower paced. 

We try to keep our monthly updates brief as we know you all have busy lives and lots of emails to read.  If you have any questions or prayer request we love to hear from you.  This also applies to your kids as our girls love to communicate with those in the states and share stories or questions.  You can send emails to jhghdunn@hotmail.com or jhghdunn@gmail.com

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